The exciting news in my life right now is that this week we closed escrow on a new house, and moved into it this weekend!\u00a0 Wow!\u00a0 It has been an exhausting exciting joyful hardworking friend-full weekend! We are full of love and joy at our new house, and excited to be manifesting our vision of living with community through the cottage in the back which we will be renting out to our friend Karen who we love a lot! Joy!\u00a0 And in the two days here we had many friends drop by and help unpack and bring us cheer — a special cheer to Leila and Matt for first night burritos, wine, fun, and unpacking. And while walking out for coffee we ran into our friend Octavian.\u00a0 And while standing out the front door my old freshman roommate walked by on his way home.\u00a0 I love the city and how full of community and friendship it is.\u00a0 Our new neighbor baked us a tray of fresh biscotti.\u00a0 Yah!<\/p>\n
I really find this point interesting though — it seems to me that the culturally dominant view in America of urban living is that cities are full of strangers and that the crush of human density is full of confrontation and alienation.\u00a0 The experience I’ve found in SF is that the urban center is full of friends and contact and connection.\u00a0 Being out of the car and primarily walking and using public transit we are routinely encountering friends on the street, or the BART, or in cafe’s etc.\u00a0 There is a deep joy in this, and a sense of belonging and community that comes from constantly unexpectedly encountering friends.\u00a0 I really do feel that this is mostly the result of not driving and moving around in real human space.\u00a0 It allows interaction to occur.\u00a0 It creates the opportunity to see who you are walking past and stop and talk and change direction of motion to go on a new adventure with the friend you just encountered.\u00a0 All the daily contact makes everyone, even the strangers, more open to talk to and create some brief connection in passing….<\/p>\n
So, its really about the car — that seems to me to be the primary force of alienation and separation in our world today. The urban density enables one to move through life without the car being the primary means, and opens one up to connection, community, and the unexpected adventure.\u00a0 The car still has its use — we still have our cars too — but that use is limited and occasional.<\/p>\n
That is all I can write this week — I’m in motion moving.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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